Back in the day, “Ben 10” was a cartoon kids couldn’t get enough of. They’d sit glued to the screen, watching Ben turn into crazy aliens and take on villains. Simple times, right?
But now? “Ben 10” is slang for something else entirely. It refers to a young guy—usually in his early 20s—who’s in a relationship with an older woman. She’s wealthy, and he’s living the life, getting spoiled with gifts and cash. It’s a sweet deal for him, really. She gets the attention, and he gets to enjoy the perks.
If you’ve heard Early B’s track, you’ll know he calls it out perfectly: “Sy soek ‘n Ben Ten//’N jong outjie, haar oudste dogter se size//Sy sê a young man with energy is what she needs in her life.” It’s straight to the point.
Times change fast, and language changes with it. One minute you’re watching a cartoon with a catchy theme song, and the next you’re reading about how real-life “Ben 10s” are shaking up relationships.